The 14 Best Vibrators for Every Situation

Balestrieri says those just starting to find their vibe might want to start with a wand because of its wider, rounded top. “It allows for more different types of stimulation than perhaps some of the smaller vibrators,” she says. She likes Bed Geek's wand massager because of its compact size (which makes it easier to store in your home than other wands) and numerous settings "that make for a really nice entry into the wand world."

If you're new to the party-for-one game, Alexandra Fine, sexologist and co-founder of Dame has a few pointers. “Trust your inner guide,” she says. “Imagine the sensations of all these different kinds of vibrators.” She adds that if the sensation sounds like something you would like, your body will tell you.

Her suggestion for newbies is the Dame Zee, a small bullet vibrator with three settings. She describes it as “not particularly intimidating in any way,” great for couples beginning to use vibrators in the bedroom, and a bullet that packs a punch. The best part: It’s $30.

Balestrieri also suggests bullet vibrators for beginners. “They’re small, discreet, and usually quiet,” she says. “They’re easy to control and good for on-the-go play—if you’re looking to take it on vacation with you or go to a partner’s house after a date.”

We like this silicone bullet from Lora DiCarlo, which has an extra cushy surface (made from medical-grade silicone) that warms up to slightly above body temperature—turning up the heat on your single (or couples) play session.

Whether you’re looking for a vibrator that can blend seamlessly with the decor of your bedroom or are just looking for a more out-of-the-ordinary device for your collection—you have options. The Crave Vesper is both of those things, with its long, sleek body that has multiple settings (including gentle and oscillating) for external use. “In addition to being easy-to-use, Vesper provides an aesthetic jewelry experience,” says Ti Chang, VP of Design and co-founder of Crave.

Iroha+ Tori makes pleasure simple—with its luxuriously soft exterior (made from body-safe silicone) and curves that are intended to hug the crevices of your body.

Consider this the new statement piece of your nightstand. The artfully designed Temari Mizu emits vibrations from the top of the orb for intense external pleasure. Plus, it’s waterproof (up to 20 inches), so you can even enjoy it in a steamy shower.

Not all vibes are all things to all people—but the We-Vibe Sync comes close. It can be a solo or couples vibe, provide clitoral and g-spot stimulation, and can be small enough to used hands-free. 

If you plan on vibing with a partner, opt for the Divvy, a device controlled by a remote control that can be used at a distance up to 30 (yes, you read that right) feet. 

The harder your partner squeezes the remote, the more intense the base pulses. It’s discreet, intimate, and perfect for after (or even during) a date night out.

We-Vibe and Lovehoney partnered up for a device that delivers a totally hands-free vibing session. It has ten quiver-inducing speeds and vibration patterns that you can play with via wireless remote control. That means on-the-go pleasure that you can take with you into the bedroom, your partner’s apartment, and even the shower.

For obvious reasons, finding an appropriate and enjoyable toy for that period just after you've had a baby can be challenging. Jawed-Wessel, whose area of research expertise is postpartum sex, likes Lelo's clitoral vibrators, "which are perfect for the woman who doesn't even want to be reminded of vaginal penetration," she says. 

When you are ready for penetration, however, Jawed-Wessel recommends trying a toy that is narrower and shorter than what you were used to pre-birth.

Lelo’s latest clitoral massager is the Lelo Sila, a device that the brand says you can use to “enjoy and appreciate slow sex.” Its mouth—which is larger than that of the typical clitoral device—emits sonic waves for steadily increasing pleasure.

According to Casey Tanner, certified sex therapist and Lelo expert, the Sila is also great for those who are ready to widen their sexual repertoire. “These folks might be open to slowing down their orgasm, bringing new levels of mindfulness and self-awareness to their sexual experiences,” she says. “Thus, an intermediate vibrator should introduce elevated technology that emphasizes the journey, rather than the destination, of sex.”

This device—with its sleek, ergonomic body—simulates (really good) oral sex via waves and pulses of air. Its widened mouth makes it perfect for use on other erogenous zones.

The Ferri can be used for hands-free pleasure as it adheres to your underwear (à la magnetic faces) and can be controlled via app. “It’s a teledildonic that is super fun,” says Balestrieri, “You can play with it solo or with a partner, and use it for long-distance play if you want to get naughty publicly, on the down-low.”

The Duet Pro is the future of vibrators—allowing for a bespoke experience that the most seasoned users would appreciate. “Sometimes vibrators have settings that we just don’t love like erratic patterns that we wish were constant,” says Chang. The Duet Pro remedies this by allowing you to personalize vibration patterns to your liking through a website.